THIS IS A PERCEPTION ON HOW AND WHAT LIFE IS AND WHAT WE TAKE OUT OF IT AS I ASKED MY FRIEND “FARAS DOSSANI” SO
he told me, ALL THIS…
Life is so unpredictable; you can’t even imagine what will happen to you in another upcoming second. Whether you will die or have a chance to live.
For me, LIFE is all about a second chance or another chance. Every second there is an increment in our heartbeats. We, the so-called Humans, are the finest entity on this earth, who are interlinked with different humans in relationships like Parents, Friends, and Love?
We have never realized about the importance of our life. Half of the Humans are just busy in fulfilling the essentials and requirements of their relationships.
What are we doing? Did we ever imagine that we will be fulfilling and living someone else’s dream rather than our own? We are being forced to fulfill those dreams which are already seen by someone else because they wanted us to show the society that we are fulfilling their dreams.
What about our Dreams? What about our Life? Do we ever think where our path is? Where do we want to go?
The only hardest thing for a Human in life is to find its own way or purpose of existence. People spend decades in this world but most of them fail to find their own direction, their own way of life.
We have a GOD gifted intelligence “A Brain”, which gives us our own cognitive ability to think and reason but very soon after our birth, we all are chained up with some limited dreams or requirements which are already decided by someone else for us. These decisions made for us based on other people’s dreams regarding our life takes away our own cognitive abilities to decide what we want to do out of our lives.
Our life is divided into three particular stages that are Childhood, Teenage, and Old. Since the first two stages are the verdict of our parents, as for us we have limited options to change or choose in the third stage, and we eventually land where we never wanted to be.
Usually, people say and have that perception that everyone’s childhood is the same as theirs, playing with toys, having fun, but this is not the actual story. There is another antagonistic picture behind the curtain which much more of a bitter truth.
As Childhood resembles the gaseous state of matter, that is the most moldable times of our life we diffuse, effuse and absorb things, new habits, learn new languages, learn social human behaviors as we are naïve and vulnerable, where our mothers taught us how to walk, where we climbed up on our father’s shoulders, where we had the most beautiful, funny yet annoying, memories with our siblings. This is the stage where we adopt all the Good or Bad things. A child generally learns by observation and so we adopt things which we see on daily basis in our family. Some of these things that we learn stay with us forever, until the day of our death like the way of talking, the way of walking and the way of writing.
As soon we move into our liquid state of life where we call ourselves a “Teenager” and want to be a type of independent person, somehow in this stage, we are in the linear pattern where all teenagers are doing the same shit as to go for school, tuition than for college than in end for the university. We don’t take a break during this time and we keep on climbing up the ladder of education by racing each other all thru our climb.
I think in this state we all get attached to a lot of temporary things. HAHAHA! Especially falling in love with a beauty and do some temporary promises to spend life together but as life happens and seriousness kicks in most of such relationships end. Similarly, we are a pro in taking wrong decisions in this liquid state because in this state we are only in search of fun and enjoyment, so wherever we find our defined and labeled fun we try to fit ourselves in that scenario just like liquids, they always take the shape of that in which they are contained.
So, are you done with your teenage things? Fallen in love, making wrong decisions and after learning from all temporary things now is the turn of our third stage of life, finally we move in that state which is totally handled by the air so we can also call it the solid state of life, in other words, old age which marks the end of the human life cycle. Where we become peevish.
Previously, some where in the second stage where we were flying in thin air without wings and trying to adapt and get molded into different scenarios, as life happens and we grow we somehow manage to come out of that linear pattern of life and get stuck in our health issues, which make us type of a peevish person. We find No one listening to us, some of these state particles are shifted in old age homes, some are shifted in hospitals, and some are asked to adjust themselves in between four-sided walls.
This is how you can predict your life! You can find yourself at any stage you are in. We all have to go through this linear pattern of life, so it’s our decision that how we will manage this linear pattern but by the fact, these three states are fixed for every human being…….!