“SELFIE OBSESSION TURNING TEENS INTO NARCISSISM AND ANOREXICS”
Lately, In the post-modern era of smart-phones and internet turning the world into a global village through social media. If you have an audience from the net and your talent is to look or show-off yourself as a perfect personating of a healthy, beautiful, slim, thin and living an idealistic lifestyle. But, yet, you know how much the struggle you do to get satisfaction over the obsession of getting liked by the audience of your social media platform and to impersonate of being a healthy, beautiful and perfect.
You skip meals in order not to gain excessive weight even half or quarter of a pound. And sometimes when desert cravings overtake your conscious you eat it but soon you realize you can’t afford to look ugly as no one then like you, you rush to the bathroom insert your fingers into your oesophagus making yourself vomit out all the sweet stuff you have had eaten, right?
That’s called “NARCISSISM” a obsessive mental disorder related to self-centeredness, making you being too judgemental towards your thin, tiny, beautiful, mal-nutrited body posture. As you are scared that you will be left behind all alone by your true, loving, faithful virtual friends who chat with you in their spare time to pass their free time, using you as a source of entertainment, whom you have never met in reality, whom you are not sure is either showing and telling you the whole truth about herself or himself yet you have had started sacrificing so much so you can get better, beautified and perfect selfies and eventually lead yourself to initial or mid-stage of a mental disorder. The narcissism caused because of selfie is called as “ THE SELFIE-SYNDROME”.
The story doesn’t ends here, you remember that up above I mentioned you making yourself vomit out all of your favorite food from your stomach, that you have been keeping yourself away from eating by due to excessive uncontrollable cravings taking over your mind, you had ate them, this behavior is termed as “ANOREXIA NERVOSA” it is characterized as an eating disorder, that many of selfie maniacs have developed past decade because of the fear of gaining too much weight or the obsession of acquiring the ideal body shape and size defined by the social style guru as their mantra of living a luxury and happy life. However this mantra is extremely antagonistic and defying to the real life theory about shape and size of a male or a female body based on biologists’, biochemists’ and nutritionists’ research and actual lab experimentation statements.
But, with normal, healthy and ideal body weight, size and shape your society won’t let you live and make your life a living hell by body shaming.
But, gals you should know that for a female to have thicker thighs are a sign of fertility, curving women are found more attractive to men, your curvy thighs are the source of releasing endorphins, making you feel more happy, curvy women have higher intelligence. So girls:
“DON’T FEEL LOW, BE HAPPY IN YOUR OWN SKIN”