Young Girls commonly face Low Self Esteem and Confidence! But why?
I have seen many girls in my surrounding who has lack of self confidence.
They don’t even can talk with their class mates and colleagues, most often women get confused and feel hesitate while talking to any boy or sir.
The most common question is that why majority of the girls have low self-esteem?
In maturation and puberty period women fell hesitate while doing her daily activities or playing but when we talk about boys they feel free while doing any work.
The time of maturation when estrogen begins to secrete and girl don’t play any sport and anything else which she was use too do make her confidence less as women don’t fell free while doing house chores.
The cause of less confidence is when women get fail in any exam she can’t take next chance while if we talk about boys they just don’t take any tension and give them next chance.
The building of confidence is starting from adolescence when children start growing and taught them to face the people and how to face any situation in any circumstances.
If we don’t develop gender differences among us than no more self-esteem remains in women.
But our society torches women if she smokes than she is characterless if she don’t smoke she is ‘wimp’
If she wears heavy makeup so she is fake if she doesn’t than she is ugly,
If she wears hardly any cloth she is a prostitute if she wears too much clothes she is a creep.
Here women lack self confidence.
If a girls get in relationship she feels so hesitated while talking to guy she continuously thinking whether he likes my voice or I am pretty enough to whom he wants to spend time etc etc.
While going through this stage women feels like ping-pong ball, sometimes she wants to be a man who can do anything but in other second she wants to be a women a hard working women , this gender rolling confuses women so that no self confidence can build.
Sometimes or more commonly it’s the huge mistake of our parents who makes differences between daughter and son, who wants their son to the best in any work but treat her daughter very differently which hurts girl a lot which ultimately looses confidences if she has some.
More commonly girl don’t want to communicate directly to the man even if she works in any firm and company and she has a male boss she usually feels hesitate while talking or communicating with her boss as a result she switched off her other than this she develop confidence in her to face her boss.
No doubt girl can do anything in any field but what stops her is SELF-CONFIDENCE. If women developed confidence in her she is more than a man.
“ DON’T LET ANYONE EVER DULL YOUR SPARKLE “