We all parents share a grief of STUBBORN kid but the good news they are manageable. So let me guide you today that how could you handle your stubborn kid.
Mostly parents are worried about their stubborn children how we handle them?
So! Parents here we go let’s talk about this topic.
First of all you should watch and understand your child in which things your child become possessive and stubborn. Mostly children become stubborn on eating food and when they need attention.
OK, let’s make a situation, if your children doing wrong things almost every parents say “don’t do this” this sentence make your child more negative. He/she will react in more negative way, and start doing more harmful things again and again, the best thing is to make your child busy with some healthy activity.
Start your sentence with THANK, YOU IF YOU DO THIS FOR ME!
Sit with your child and try to divert his mind in other things. You can ask questions like have your friend come to school today? Or have you finish your lunch which I have to you? Or have you share it? That kind of questions exactly changes the mind of your child.
Parents must be talk to them in a polite way to their children if you start your conversation with a loud voice, like shouting, mostly children exactly behaving like you or they become scared from you and next time they start hiding more things from you and this is more dangerous for their future, and also for you as well.
Positive words make your child positive; beware using slang language in front of your child. Actually slang language is a bad language so try to keep you away from it.
Don’t say NO to your child you can say no in a different way!!You should include yourself too and say if we do wrong things it is harm for our health or it is not good for us.
Make your child busy in healthy activity like coloring, drawing, manage their rooms, cupboards. Shoe racks, gardening, playing with the toys or keep them busy according to their age. PLEASE don’t make them busy with mobile phones or Tablets.
MAIN REASON OF YOUR CHILD BECOME STUBBORN IS THE BEHAVIOR OF THE HUSBAND AND WIFE, WHO ARE BEHAVING IN FRONT OF THEIR CHILD. Mostly parents start fighting in front of the children and this impact is very bad for the children so parents be care full, be polite.
I hope you like the topic, if you want to include some more suggestions write a comment and make me more informative too.
Have a Blessed life.