Today I am differentiating the deficiencies of Arrange and love marriage in this blog. First, I discuss some bad effects of love marriage.
Mostly, majority is in the favor of this marriage and they said that in this marriage, husband and wife has good chemistry.
It is a valid point but beside this there are so many deficiencies in this marriage
like; girl’s mother and father in law don’t accept him and
if the husband defends his wife in any problem then it will become a big issue for the husband because
husband’s mother can’t tolerate this that his son give priority to his wife than her and
if any misunderstanding creates between them then mostly wife said
“ Main tumhe shaadi se pehle aesa nahi samajhte thee mujhe kiya pata tha kay tum aese niklo gay,shaayad mene tumse shaadi karke both barree galti karde hai.
The divorce chances are high in love marriage than in arrange marriage.
In Pakistan ,mostly parents prefer this marriage than love because
they wanted that their children get marry where they or with whom they want and nothing is wrong in their wish
because it is theirs Islamic right.
But they don’t have good understanding but if they want good understanding terms so both of them have to compromise. And mostly in this marriage, the wife comprises and therefore these marriages are long lasting.
- What I think, I have told you but don’t forget to tell me what do you think and please comment because it can be possible that I think wrong about marriage after all no one is perfect in this world.