Lion Goodman discovers the key to understanding how women communicate and how men can learn to speak their language.
While men and women deserve to be treated equally, the fact of the matter is that there are certain social differences between the two genders.
It seems woman is difficult to understand but Understanding a women is not so difficult, we just need to know what woman wants from her partner.
If a girl’s partner is sensible and have ability to understand her partner’s issue than he should understand or focus on following steps:
- Accept that all woman are different:
You may met many women in your life but make sure everyone is not same as another one, every woman have different interest and habits I:e sports, artistic, business girl, make up lover etc
If you had your sister which is sporty and your girlfriend is not sport lover than you have to understand that your girlfriend have different frame of mind and have different personality.
Each woman has her own personality and goals.
Over generalizing can be dangerous.
Don’t consider one woman behavior as universal behavior.
Understand that women are not men:
Second thing you have to understand is that woman and man are totally different creations in every expect
i.e biologically, mentally, physically, emotionally etc
If you have both male and female friends than don’t treat your female friend as your male friend, they both have different priorities and personalities.
The best way to understand a woman is to observe her, to observe her mood swings, her actions and her movements that what she likes or what she not likes
And be patient while observing her because some women will show you immediately what she is trying to do or some woman takes time to express something.
Pay Attention to Her Words:
If you having conversation with a woman than you should pay attention to her words what is saying or asking to you,
so that you fill find easy to understand her queries and problems.
Pay Attention to Her Actions:
Woman not made to do all your, if she is doing work so pay attention towards her every move so that you will find if she doing well or disturbed with anything. It will help you out to solve her problem and to make strong your relation.
Ask Her Questions:
If you want anything to know about her than ask her it will help you to understand her better, if you fell trouble about understanding any mood swing than ask her she will feel good and it will make your relation more stronger.
- Learn about her past:
Ask about her family, about her childhood or about her past which feel feel you pleasure but don’t press negative sides of her past, make sure ask those question of which she will feel comfortable while sharing with you.
- If you think she’s upset, ask:
Sometimes woman feel uncomfortable voicing emotional pain and if you observe she is off than ask her politely, ask her if she off or may help her to solve her problem
- “You seem upset, and I’m worried. Did I do something that hurt you?”
- “You seem distant today. Is something wrong?”
- Be a good listener
Listening is good to understand anyone even a woman , listening careful and with full concentration will help you to find the solution of her problem and to ask her questions in order to understand her.