Human nature is as flexible and vulnerable as anything you experience in life. We have the ability to adopt the ideas, acts and thoughts from those that we are surrounded with gradually if we found them to be convincing. It is not always necessary that we may distinguish between right and wrong or what we should listen to.
You need to be witty in choosing your company always. People who you plan to hang out with must possess those characteristics which will lead you to stay positive about your life decisions. Now the question here arises of how you can keep yourself intact with the right people?
Think again of a moment when you were witting with someone speaking about your job, your family, and your relations very positively and all of a sudden hey started complaining to you about what do they lack in life or how everything can turn out to be worse all of a sudden. They made you feel down and depress for a moment, to be pessimistic and worried for no reason at all. There is a very vigilant point about people you should avoid in life that they are always discouraging you might never receive that appreciation from them which you deserve. If you notice someone who pretends to be very close to you and never put ears to your success stories and achievement proudly while pushing you towards a better life then you need to step back from their company. Set boundaries for certain people and make sure to not to discuss your daily routines with them.
Build up a social network which is optimistic. Giving you all the new ways to be better in your personal as well as professional life. These interactions become a significant reason for a contended and a successful life.