Failure is often considered bad, let me break this. It’s not a good bye but a hello.
Failure is something that closes one door, but it leads way to another. When you have failed, you know that you hadn’t done it right. You got to figure another way to get things done.
If you ask me I have seen failure very closely, so I am not saying just for the sake of saying. I have been through the worst of life, and what I got after that was the best for me, but if you ask me today. I laugh it out; there’s was a time in my life when I actually taught of ending my life. I could not see anything getting better, neither had I had my hopes high that things might change. All I could see failure, no light, no hope; nothing was left with in me.
If I was alone throughout this process I wouldn’t have been alive to write this up.
For a 19 year old what happened to her, what she had been through in life was enough to fall apart but what kept me going is the support of those people who wanted to lift me up, and not pull me down.
But now, as a grown up still I might not be old enough now either to lecture someone but what life has taught me is, once you give up that’s the time when you have actually failed. Failing at something, once, twice, thrice or even more than that is not failure but giving up is.
Once you have given up on anything, it’s over. You lost the will, you lost the chance to do better.
Don’t ever lose hope, sow the hope seed and take care of it and water it every day. As you’ll see it grow you’ll feel determined to do better.