Being an extremist can cause some major damage to anyone. It’s one of those things that can make or break anyone because you get too far in making those things happen for our own self or people we belong to which are not possible.
Idealism is a philosophy based on the premise that nothing exists except minds and spirits and their perceptions or ideas. A person experiences material things, but their existence is not independent of the perceiving mind; material things are thus mere perceptions. The reality of the outside world is contingent on a know-er.
We see people idealizing other people; they can come from any background; actors, influencer, bloggers, politicians or anyone!
Some people come too far in this business that they end up forgetting from where they actually belong to. They start living the life that’s not theirs which cause some major damage later on.
If you like someone and you want to become like him/her then work hard, get on the same path but with utmost honesty and sincerity with your work; they ‘re at a position because they have worked for it.
Just with a though to become like them you cannot become that person, honestly. And you can never be that person in the first place, you can either be the better version of them or a little lesser than them.
You need to realize, everything takes time, but sometime we’re really impatient that we are ready to take any short cut without thinking that it can cause some major damage to us. It’s our mind whose playing games with us, we start to imagine things that are not reality. It’s our expectations from other people and our own selves which often lead to dejection.
You need to think twice before you do anything for own peace of mind.