Being a girl you must have heard of this sentence in your daily life example. “Shareef Larkiyan aese nahi karti !” They do not walk on terrace, they do not step out of the house without a man, they do not talk much etc. A noble girls? Who are these ? From where do they belong? I have been trying to find these answers since the very first day I’ve heard of it.
-Well let’s try to find it out together.
When a girl cover herself properly with hijab and walking down the street she’s known as a noble girl, but if they actually consider her a noble girl then why do they bully her? Stop their bikes and cars in front of her, in her way ?
When a girl agrees to marry a man her family chooses for her(without even seeing him once) then they consider her a noble woman but if they really do that then why is she not allowed to go outside without a permission? Why she needs a permission to meet herb own parent and siblings?
When a girl does not talk to boys and is not involved in any gatherings with boys they tells this kind of a girl is noble, then why they raise a question on her whenever she steps out of the house for job or further studies or any purpose?
A girl belong from a very well-known respectable family they consider her noble, they why they suddenly change their concepts about her when she wears jeans or tight or anything forward to trends? Why do they provide her a character certificate?
Luckily we found her. A girl who covers herself with hijab, never steps out of the house alone, never talked to a boy except of her brothers in life, has no relationship with fashion and trends, agrees to a typical arrange marriage and only willing to learn Islamic Education. First of all no one is going to notice her but when they do despite of calling her noble they call her fake! Why so ??
Let’s take a moment and suppose that someone considered her a noble girl and got married to her. After marriage just in case if she is not happy with her so-called In-Laws and her not-so-loving husband, now, she is not allowed to raise a voice for herself because that’s not what a pious woman do but still if she tolerates the same circumstances in life, they are not going to tell her that YOU ARE A NOBLE/HONORABLE/PIOUS WOMAN.
That’s the truth of the society we live in. The shareef larki is only living in the examples or dead ones.